INTER-CAST AND INTER-RELIGION MARRIAGES IN INDIA

Let's have some delicious feed for your peckish mind.

1. My elder cousin brother had an affair from class 8th with his junior. The girl belongs to business class & we are from Rajput community. Her parents were against this relationship. A quarrel arises in between the girls brother and my brother which results in fracture in my brothers leg as well. When the revenge reaches to the bench of all brothers, the matter increases to certain folds. At last my maternal grand father any how manage the situation. We enjoyed a marriage with hoisted flags and firing guns. In this way we got our Sister in law.

2. Two of my Uncle beat back girls belonging to Pandits, both of the parties were vying initially which we came to know from our parents.

3. One of my Uncle married a Parsi girl in South India. When his father came to know about it, as his father moves to the site uncle and aunt reaches to Delhi, when the father reaches Delhi they were in home district and then to their job district. At last our so called Grandfather was tired of chasing his own son. In this way that beautiful story was completed.

4. One of my Uncle had an affair with my Aunt belonging to christian community before marriage. The girl had written a letter that she will commit suicide if she got married to someone else.

The day when her marriage was going on she makes away with her lover & in this way she became our Aunt.

Some inter caste marriages in our family are arranged as well. Where the bond of love is also equivalent and sometime better than the above discussed ones. Even they had no exposure of each other before marriage, but they are good friends still.

The marriages within same caste and same religion have an edge certain time due to parents and relatives support. Yet quarrels and dissonance are in each relationship across the world.

Thank You.

Kalicharan Nayal.

MUSLIM VERSUS HINDUS WHICH ONE IS BETTER

Remembering those Priests/Ulamas

Someone told that Muslims are too much brutal. Their method of slaughtering animals (halal method) shows their brutality. They kill animal slowly, slowly and the body of animal showing movement even after death. The animal is floundering.

But actually slaughtering with halal method is not responsible for that, it's just a neuromuscular reflex which comparatively occurs more in Jhatka method of Hindus.


However, Muslims claims that in halal method all blood is removed from meat as in Islam blood eating is ‘haraam'.

But the truth is that even after slaughtering with halal method blood is left in blood vessels. The meat is not much red compared to Jhatka meat but a good quantity of blood is still present in it.


So net a whole both the parties having some myths regarding slaughtering. If you are killing an animal for food, go slaughter it by any way you desire and have your food.


Please don't compliment on each other's religion. Food consumption depends on health consciousness, taste, psychological satisfaction.


Thank You.
Kalicharan Nayal.

MURDER AND HONOUR KILLING INCREASES LIFE SPAN

Inorder to increase our life span, killing others is necessary. Murder is an act which is performed by every human from childhood till end of its life.

Let me elaborate it, what happens, there are grains, cereals, animals and every creature which are utilised to be a food item are basically living beings except cases of roots, leaves instead they also have alive cells.
We kill those wheat grains, crush them and that carcass is modified by pressing and heat treatment and than provided a desired shape, structure to form chapattis, parathas and various other edible items.

We heat them alive in pressure cooker to form various dishes, fry them alive and eat those dead bodies together with other by products made by treatment of pulses and vegetables to satisfy our hunger.

Yes we can say for self-satisfaction that plant's don't move. God had not provided them such power like animals to live a dynamic life, so being a vegetarian is much better as we are not killing dynamic ones. Even such a sensitive circulatory system like animals is absent. But we can't deny those vegetarians are also murderers.

We kill birds, goats, sheep, buffalo etc to deal with our hunger. The truth is “JEEVO JEEVASHYA BHOJANAM”. We rear Cattle for Milk; we rear animals and cultivate plants for our needs of food, shelter and clothes.

Actually the concept is somebody have to die, somebody have to suffer for somebody happiness.

Its not possible that everyone will remain happy at the same time. If someone is happy someone will be definitely in sorrow.

 If we are having party to night we are enjoying food, songs, dance etc. Thousands of plants and animal were sacrificed for our enjoyment.

So in real we are the most advance murderers, with no rules and laws for providing justice to those creatures. Their relatives are killed by us.; their forefathers were killed by us. Still nobody can do anything to us. Yes we are the ones which have still maintained their gene codes but we daily murder someone to increase our life span.

Thank You.
Kalicharan Nayal.

DOWRY AND ITS SOLUTION

Dowry in India was born in Rajput’s (Kings) & Baniya (Business class) community of Ancient time, as they were rich enough. In Rajput’s it was in form of Elephants, horses, cows, bullocks etc. by the father of Princess, with a commitment of help during war. Marriage became a part of Politics, a medium to make more allies. Later this system expands & with course of time it became a mandatory custom. In various region of India dowry is given somewhere by bride’s father & somewhere by groom’s father also.

Now in today’s context dowry as a primary step have numerous divisions in successive steps, like divorce, murder, abusing, rape etc. Dowry in today’s world with & without its existence gives birth to certain heinous crimes.

In order to come to a solution we have to know the cause of such sin & i.e. Marriage. The existence of dowry got its energy in the way we defines a marriage in India.

Now the question moves to the definition of marriage & why it should be done?

1. Do we marry so as we have to reproduce as god had given us the power to go with it & it’s our duty to give birth to young ones & take care of them carefully as we are different from plants & other animals? Nowadays surrogacy & adoption are some ways to give birth & take care of someone if you needs.

2. Do we marry so as to get our food ready, washed utensils, clothes & other household works? Nowadays maids are easily available in India due to poverty and lack of employment. You can get a maid for washing utensils & clothes, a maid for making food. Basically you need a wife or husband, not a servant. Yes sometimes people need a cup of tea or some chapatti made by their partner, in which both man & woman can equally participate.

3. Do we marry for satisfaction of our physical needs? India with an explosion of population has certain centers of legal sexual relationships, for those who are so much keen to such needs & there is an option of live in relationship also. Otherwise it’s not necessary or a recommended activity to live a healthy life.

4. Do we marry for not being alone? There are several societies available. You can join any one of them and you will never feel alone. You will meet a no. of fellows living an unmarried life there.

Than what is the purpose of marriage?

1. Marriage in itself is generating a power within our mind which will flow to our body and express in our work, the power to make commitment and follow that commitment until your death. It’s a Promise and maintaining the dignity of our promise. In Hindi we can say “vachan”.

2. Marriage is trust in itself on both sides. A trust to help & take care in any situation whether it is medical, legal or else. For example a million dollar company comes to ground. Suddenly what will happen? All the business partners will behave as strangers. But the bond of marriage have provided you a partner who still have trust in you, and his/her trust is enough to become a tycoon again.

3. Marriage in itself is a Support which a person need during ups & downs of life.

So net a whole we get some jewels which are unavailable in market, and we can’t buy them with money and they are:-

SUPPORT TRUST PROMISE COMMITMENT.

Now what we have to do, we have to teach our upcoming generation from their birth about these most precious, UN buy-able & easily unavailable jewels. Once the generation understand the concept, they will search & develop these jewels & sins like dowry will automatically disappears.

Kalicharan Nayal 

DIVORCED/WIDOWED WOMENS & UNMARRIED MANS

Majority of unmarried Indian youngsters have not that much amount of courage to take this responsibility.

Marrying a divorcee or widow women is a big responsibility and it also needs high level of mentality. 

But Indian youngster’s mentality is up to physical relationship only. So they have not that much courage that much amount of will power to take such affirmative actions.

Yes there are very few of Indians which are exception to it.

Kalicharan Nayal 

BEST DOG IN INDIA

I myself as an Indian can speak frankly that some of us are still slaves of Englishmen’s.

They prefer to speak English instead of their mother tongue. They make a mockery of their regional languages. Similarly they love foreign breed not those stray dogs. They have a status symbol. Status symbol, to deliver everything in English. Status symbol to have an English breed dog at home.

I had a street dog at my home. Actually she was a street dog when she came, but now she is my dog. My Personal dog. Far much better than various English dogs.

Initially my neighbours comment on her that these dogs r fool, they know nothing. If somebody came to me, I can show what my dog is. If I say No, she stops doing any activity. She understand every command whether it is YES, NO, COME, GO whatever u expect from an exotic breed of good quality & even she herself take her utensil below faucet to fill water. Just I had to open it. I had taught her commands in English so that if somebody else watches he/she can see that she is no more less than an exotic breed. She does certain activities which other people’s dogs never do and understand. She never falls ill. She had very rarely any health Problem. The resistant Power of her body is very much.

What is the Profit of such dogs which create problems in your life, those having certain health issues or those fighting with their own mental problems? Dog must be such who can relieve your stress. Who is going to respect you always.

And a street dog in my Knowledge is the best dog. In India u will very rarely get a pure line of exotic dog. U will always get a hybrid. Because there are certain health issues with pure exotic breed as environment is different. So I suggest Street dogs as best to be as a pet in India.

 Kalicharan Nayal 

ANIMAL SACRIFICE IN TEMPLES

I am a pure vegetarian. Even I don’t take eggs, and food items containing them. Yes I had taken non veg diet in my life once, but I don’t like it. So I left with it. What I think is why to protest against slaughter house. Let them eat who r non-vegetarian. God have no problem with vegetarian or non-vegetarian. Yes it’s easy for a vegan to do sadhna because his concentration is much more as told in Indian scripture.

The fact is that as I am eating chapatti, I had too sacrificed a lot of wheat grains. They were also alive equivalent to an animal. So why not people going to protest against plants. They are too alive. Don’t eat veg, don’t eat non veg. Go and die. These idiots had made rules against sacrificing goats, buffalo and chicken etc. at public places but that was a religious practice.

I don’t know why everyone is going to report against Hindu temples with 1 or 2 priests and a small amount of local population why don’t they report on bakri Eid as animal protection rule say it must be prohibited at public place. The truth is that these are afraid of Muslim unity and community. Muslims have maintained their dignity. They will not allow anyone to interfere in their religion. These sentimental bastards have disturbed the traditional bali at temples. Are we not slaughtering those goats, buffalo and chicken now? They had stopped it? Yet they r being cut more brutally in meat shop and those who have to eat the chevon of a goat or buffalo meat are eating today also. The rule must be amended and the traditional practice of goat, buffalo, and chicken sacrifice is given permission. Yes! We have to protect some animal which are endangered and yes we have to preserve the tradition also.

Some fools say why at temple. It is not written in scripture. Just tell me meaning of this sentence. “ Raktbeej asur adharmi kukarmi ghanghor k. Shor kr ladne ko dhaye apna ran dal chor k. Shri bhavani yuddh thani sakal skti bulaye k. Yognin ko rakht pilaye antariksh uthaye k.” Who is this Yogini who is drinking blood? How the Rakhtbeej have been killed.

Some say that it is just because if an animal see other animal being cut in front of him/her. It creates a feeling of fear to him/her. Wow what a thought. Don’t do murder in Public place do it in a room so that no one can be afraid. If we apply it to humans how it looks? Tell me other chickens are not aware of what occurring with their friend in meat shop.

Kalicharan Nayal