DOWRY AND ITS SOLUTION

Dowry in India was born in Rajput’s (Kings) & Baniya (Business class) community of Ancient time, as they were rich enough. In Rajput’s it was in form of Elephants, horses, cows, bullocks etc. by the father of Princess, with a commitment of help during war. Marriage became a part of Politics, a medium to make more allies. Later this system expands & with course of time it became a mandatory custom. In various region of India dowry is given somewhere by bride’s father & somewhere by groom’s father also.

Now in today’s context dowry as a primary step have numerous divisions in successive steps, like divorce, murder, abusing, rape etc. Dowry in today’s world with & without its existence gives birth to certain heinous crimes.

In order to come to a solution we have to know the cause of such sin & i.e. Marriage. The existence of dowry got its energy in the way we defines a marriage in India.

Now the question moves to the definition of marriage & why it should be done?

1. Do we marry so as we have to reproduce as god had given us the power to go with it & it’s our duty to give birth to young ones & take care of them carefully as we are different from plants & other animals? Nowadays surrogacy & adoption are some ways to give birth & take care of someone if you needs.

2. Do we marry so as to get our food ready, washed utensils, clothes & other household works? Nowadays maids are easily available in India due to poverty and lack of employment. You can get a maid for washing utensils & clothes, a maid for making food. Basically you need a wife or husband, not a servant. Yes sometimes people need a cup of tea or some chapatti made by their partner, in which both man & woman can equally participate.

3. Do we marry for satisfaction of our physical needs? India with an explosion of population has certain centers of legal sexual relationships, for those who are so much keen to such needs & there is an option of live in relationship also. Otherwise it’s not necessary or a recommended activity to live a healthy life.

4. Do we marry for not being alone? There are several societies available. You can join any one of them and you will never feel alone. You will meet a no. of fellows living an unmarried life there.

Than what is the purpose of marriage?

1. Marriage in itself is generating a power within our mind which will flow to our body and express in our work, the power to make commitment and follow that commitment until your death. It’s a Promise and maintaining the dignity of our promise. In Hindi we can say “vachan”.

2. Marriage is trust in itself on both sides. A trust to help & take care in any situation whether it is medical, legal or else. For example a million dollar company comes to ground. Suddenly what will happen? All the business partners will behave as strangers. But the bond of marriage have provided you a partner who still have trust in you, and his/her trust is enough to become a tycoon again.

3. Marriage in itself is a Support which a person need during ups & downs of life.

So net a whole we get some jewels which are unavailable in market, and we can’t buy them with money and they are:-

SUPPORT TRUST PROMISE COMMITMENT.

Now what we have to do, we have to teach our upcoming generation from their birth about these most precious, UN buy-able & easily unavailable jewels. Once the generation understand the concept, they will search & develop these jewels & sins like dowry will automatically disappears.

Kalicharan Nayal 

DIVORCED/WIDOWED WOMENS & UNMARRIED MANS

Majority of unmarried Indian youngsters have not that much amount of courage to take this responsibility.

Marrying a divorcee or widow women is a big responsibility and it also needs high level of mentality. 

But Indian youngster’s mentality is up to physical relationship only. So they have not that much courage that much amount of will power to take such affirmative actions.

Yes there are very few of Indians which are exception to it.

Kalicharan Nayal 

BEST DOG IN INDIA

I myself as an Indian can speak frankly that some of us are still slaves of Englishmen’s.

They prefer to speak English instead of their mother tongue. They make a mockery of their regional languages. Similarly they love foreign breed not those stray dogs. They have a status symbol. Status symbol, to deliver everything in English. Status symbol to have an English breed dog at home.

I had a street dog at my home. Actually she was a street dog when she came, but now she is my dog. My Personal dog. Far much better than various English dogs.

Initially my neighbours comment on her that these dogs r fool, they know nothing. If somebody came to me, I can show what my dog is. If I say No, she stops doing any activity. She understand every command whether it is YES, NO, COME, GO whatever u expect from an exotic breed of good quality & even she herself take her utensil below faucet to fill water. Just I had to open it. I had taught her commands in English so that if somebody else watches he/she can see that she is no more less than an exotic breed. She does certain activities which other people’s dogs never do and understand. She never falls ill. She had very rarely any health Problem. The resistant Power of her body is very much.

What is the Profit of such dogs which create problems in your life, those having certain health issues or those fighting with their own mental problems? Dog must be such who can relieve your stress. Who is going to respect you always.

And a street dog in my Knowledge is the best dog. In India u will very rarely get a pure line of exotic dog. U will always get a hybrid. Because there are certain health issues with pure exotic breed as environment is different. So I suggest Street dogs as best to be as a pet in India.

 Kalicharan Nayal 

ANIMAL SACRIFICE IN TEMPLES

I am a pure vegetarian. Even I don’t take eggs, and food items containing them. Yes I had taken non veg diet in my life once, but I don’t like it. So I left with it. What I think is why to protest against slaughter house. Let them eat who r non-vegetarian. God have no problem with vegetarian or non-vegetarian. Yes it’s easy for a vegan to do sadhna because his concentration is much more as told in Indian scripture.

The fact is that as I am eating chapatti, I had too sacrificed a lot of wheat grains. They were also alive equivalent to an animal. So why not people going to protest against plants. They are too alive. Don’t eat veg, don’t eat non veg. Go and die. These idiots had made rules against sacrificing goats, buffalo and chicken etc. at public places but that was a religious practice.

I don’t know why everyone is going to report against Hindu temples with 1 or 2 priests and a small amount of local population why don’t they report on bakri Eid as animal protection rule say it must be prohibited at public place. The truth is that these are afraid of Muslim unity and community. Muslims have maintained their dignity. They will not allow anyone to interfere in their religion. These sentimental bastards have disturbed the traditional bali at temples. Are we not slaughtering those goats, buffalo and chicken now? They had stopped it? Yet they r being cut more brutally in meat shop and those who have to eat the chevon of a goat or buffalo meat are eating today also. The rule must be amended and the traditional practice of goat, buffalo, and chicken sacrifice is given permission. Yes! We have to protect some animal which are endangered and yes we have to preserve the tradition also.

Some fools say why at temple. It is not written in scripture. Just tell me meaning of this sentence. “ Raktbeej asur adharmi kukarmi ghanghor k. Shor kr ladne ko dhaye apna ran dal chor k. Shri bhavani yuddh thani sakal skti bulaye k. Yognin ko rakht pilaye antariksh uthaye k.” Who is this Yogini who is drinking blood? How the Rakhtbeej have been killed.

Some say that it is just because if an animal see other animal being cut in front of him/her. It creates a feeling of fear to him/her. Wow what a thought. Don’t do murder in Public place do it in a room so that no one can be afraid. If we apply it to humans how it looks? Tell me other chickens are not aware of what occurring with their friend in meat shop.

Kalicharan Nayal

YAGYA/HAWAN/HOMA EASIEST WAY

I can tell u how Kali Hawan can be done. And how I perform it. It is the most easy way to perform and anyone can perform without any help.

Notice:- The method is not given to create any problems to Brahmins/any Shashtri. It is given so as to tell the way to perform Yagya where brahmins/ Shashtri are not available. Otherwise Brahmins/ Shashtris are best if they are available.

Inorder to Perform a hawan u need following things:-

Wood. (Mango is sufficient), Ghee, Sesame seed(til), Oat(jaun), Panchmeva, Sandalwood(chandan), Jaggery(desi khand), hawan samgri(available in market), dry coconut, Guggul(available in market), Camphor(kapur).

Mix all the above material in a huge wash bowl except camphor and wood, and coconut. Divide ghee in to 3 part. Mix 1 part in the mixture after burning it. And rest 2 part be collected in a separate bowl that will be used for ahuti later, have a big spoon for that purpose also.

 Make a hole in coconut. Fill some Ghee in it and keep it in center of bowl where mixture is kept.

1. If u have a hawan kund its OK. If not use a huge wash bowl. Have four bricks & arrange them in a rectangular form and keep that wash bowl/ kund above it.
2. Have some sand in Kund. And now arrange 3–4 woods above it. Pour some ghee in wood. Arrange some camphor in it.
3. Have water in your right hand. And recite “OM AMRTIO UPASTRANMASI SWAHA” and drink the water.
4. Again take water in right hand & recite “OM AMRITA APIDHANMASI SWAHA” & drink the water.
5. Again repeat same & recite “OM SATYAM YASHAH SHRI MAYI SHRI SHRAYTAAM SWAHA” & drink the water.
6. Wash your hand & burn the fire with match stick.
7. Now take some mixture u had made with ur middle, ring finger and thumb…i.e mrigi mudra. In which Yajna should proceed. And offer it in kund when Swaha comes in mantra.
8. Arrange a Person who have to manage the fire. It must be burning till end of Yagya.
9. Mantras in sequence:-

FIRST OFFER TO GANESHA

Om shri Ganeshay Namah Swaha:

NOW OFFER TO YOUR GURU

Om sam siddhay namah Swaha: (This is my guru mantra if u have any other guru recite it. U can also recite Om gram grim graum sah guruve namah in its place).

NOW OFFER TO GAYATRI MATA

Om bhur bhuvah svah tat savitur varen(i)yam bhargo devasya dhimahi dhiyo yo nah prachodayat swaha:

NOW RECITE NAV GRAH MANTRA & INDRA MANTRA

Om Indraye Namah Idam Indraye Ityaghora Swaha:

Om suryaye namah idam suryaye swaha:

Om chandraye namah idam chandraye swaha:

Om mangalay namah idam mangalay swaha:

Om buddhaye namah idam budhay swaha:

Om guruwe namah idam Guruwe swaha:

Om shukraye namah idam shukraye swaha:

Om shanaye namah idam shanaye swaha:

Om rahve namah idam rahve swaha:

Om ketuve namah idam ketuve swaha:

NOW PRAY HANUMAN JI & BHAIRAV.

Om Hum hanumate Rudratmakaye hum phat swaha:

Om Kaal bhairavay namah swaha:

RECITE UR ISHT DEVI & ISHT DEV MANTRA NOW. As mine are:-

Om Isht devye Maa Katyayini Namah swaha:

Om Isht devye Maa Haat Kalike devye Namah swaha:

Om Isht devye Maa Ujjain Kalikaye Namah Swaha:

Om Isht devye Maa sachiyaye Namah swaha:

Om Isht dev Gangnathay Devay namah swaha:

NOW RECITE SOME OF IMPORTANT GODS U PREFER: like mine are

Om Goljyu devay Namah Swaha:

Om Baagnathay namah Swaha:

NOW RECITE PANCH TATVA MANTRA

Om Prithvi namah(earth), apas namah(water), tejas namh(light), maruta namah(wind), aakashay namah(sky) swaha:

NOW IF U HAVE ANY KUL RECITE IT OTHERWISE NOT NEEDED As mine is:-

Om agni devay namah Swaha:

Om agni pitraye namah Swaha:

NOW RECITE MAA KALI MANTRA AND OFFER IN KUND:-

Om krim krim krim hum hum hrim hrim dakshine kalike krim krim krim hum hum hrim hrim swaha:

Om jayanti mangala kali bhadra kali kapalini durga shama shiva dhatri swaha swadha namostute swaha:

Offer these mantra 108–108 time till ur mixture come to an end. Preserve some material for last mantras.

NOW RECITE MANTRA FOR PITRA SO THAT WHATEVER GOD HAVE TAKEN WILL BE TAKEN BY PITRA NOW AND IT WILL HELP TO DECREASE THEIR PROBLEMS.

Om shri sarva pitra dosh nivarnay kalesham hum hum sukh shanti dehi phat swaha:

NOW TAKE ALL MATERIAL IN UR HAND WITH THAT COCONUT AND OFFER IT IN KUND RECITING THIS:-

Om poornam-adah poornam-idah poorna-aat poornamvashishyate. Om poorna-asya poornam-aadaaya poornam-evaa vashishyate. Om shaanti shaanti shaanti swaha:

NOW GET UP AT UR PLACE & ROTATE 3 TIME RECITING THIS MANTRA OF SORRY TO GOD 3 TIMES.

Yani Kani Cha Papani Janmantara Kritanicha Tani Tani Vinashyanti Pradakshinam Pade Pade.

NOW LET THE FIRE BURN THE MATERIAL LEFT IN KUND. AND U MUST DO DEVI APARADH KSHAMAPAN STROTAM.

DO AARTI, USE BELL, BLOW THE CONCH SHELL WITH THIS STROTA.

Na Matram No Yantram Tad-Api Ca Na Jaane Stutim-Aho
Na Ca-[A]ahvaanam Dhyaanam Tad-Api Ca Na Jaane Stuti-Kathaah |
Na Jaane Mudraas-Te Tad-Api Ca Na Jaane Vilapanam
Param Jaane Maatas-Tvad-Anusarannam Klesha-Harannam ||1||

Vidher-Ajnyaanena Dravinna-Virahenna-Alasatayaa
Vidheya-Ashakyatvaat-Tava Carannayoryaa Cyutir-Abhuut |
Tad-Etat Kssantavyam Janani Sakalo[a-U]ddhaarinni Shive
Kuputro Jaayeta Kvacid-Api Kumaataa Na Bhavati ||2||

Prthivyaam Putraas-Te Janani Bahavah Santi Saralaah
Param Tessaam Madhye Virala-Taralo[a-A]ham Tava Sutah |
Madiiyo-[A]yam Tyaagah Samucitam-Idam No Tava Shive
Kuputro Jaayeta Kvacid-Api Kumaataa Na Bhavati ||3||

Jaganmaatar-Maatas-Tava Caranna-Sevaa Na Racitaa
Na Vaa Dattam Devi Dravinnam-Api Bhuuyas-Tava Mayaa |
Tathaa-[A]pi Tvam Sneham Mayi Nirupamam Yat-Prakurusse
Kuputro Jaayeta Kvacid-Api Kumaataa Na Bhavati ||4||

Parityaktaa Devaa Vividha-Vidha-Sevaa-Kulatayaa
Mayaa Pan.caashiiter-Adhikam-Apaniite Tu Vayasi |
Idaaniim Cenmaatas-Tava Yadi Krpaa Na-Api Bhavitaa
Niraalambo Lambodara-Janani Kam Yaami Sharannam ||5||

Shvapaako Jalpaako Bhavati Madhupaako[a-U]pama-Giraa
Niraatangko Rangko Viharati Ciram Kotti-Kanakaih |
Tava-Aparnne Karnne Vishati Manu-Varnne Phalam-Idam
Janah Ko Jaaniite Janani Japaniiyam Japa-Vidhau ||6||

Citaa-Bhasmaa-Lepo Garalam-Ashanam Dik-Patta-Dharo
Jattaa-Dhaarii Kanntthe Bhujaga-Pati-Haarii Pashupatih |
Kapaalii Bhuutesho Bhajati Jagadiishai[a-E]ka-Padaviim
Bhavaani Tvat-Paanni-Grahanna-Paripaattii-Phalam-Idam ||7|

Na Mokssasya-[A]akaangkssaa Bhava-Vibhava-Vaan.chaa-[A]pi Ca Na Me
Na Vijnyaana-Apekssaa Shashi-Mukhi Sukhe[a-I]ccha-Api Na Punah |
Atas-Tvaam Samyaace Janani Jananam Yaatu Mama Vai
Mrddaanii Rudraannii Shiva Shiva Bhavaani-Iti Japatah ||8||

Na-[A]araadhitaasi Vidhinaa Vividho[a-U]pacaaraih
Kim Rukssa-Cintana-Parair-Na Krtam Vacobhih |
Shyaame Tvameva Yadi Kin.cana Mayy-Anaathe
Dhatse Krpaam-Ucitam-Amba Param Tavai[a-E]va ||9||

apatsu Magnah Smarannam Tvadiiyam
Karomi Durge Karunnaa-[A]rnnav[a-Ii]eshi |
Nai[a-E]tac-Chattha-Tvam Mama Bhaavayethaa Kssudhaa-Trssaa-[Aa]rtaa Jananiim Smaranti ||10||

Jagadamba Vicitram-Atra Kim
Paripuurnnaa Karunnaa-[A]sti Cenmayi |
Aparaadha-Paramparaa-Param
Na Hi Maataa Samupekssate Sutam ||11||

Matsamah Paatakii Naasti Paapa-Ghnii Tvatsamaa Na Hi |
Evam Jnyaatvaa Mahaadevi Yathaa-Yogyam Tathaa Kuru ||12||

Now Your Homa is completed.

Notice:- Above all is my method of Performing Yagya. After a lot of homework i have designed this combination. I had done certain Yagya in this doing today also. If u think anything else be added in it. I will be thankful for your valuable advice.

Thank You.

 Kalicharan Nayal 

DR AND ENGINEER BOTH AT A TIME

Just if you want Dr. in your name you can go for PhD. after Engineering.

But if you want to Practice, in India after gaining graduation degree in medical, veterinary, dental background u can go for M.Tech in biomedical Engineering, Bioenergy etc.

After that u can work as a Dr. also and as an Engineer also. U can do both practice at the same time.

As far as i know, in India an Engineer can become a Dr. and vice versa also possible but considering practice of both medical & Engineering Profession at the same time what i know is possible for medical graduates only. Rest is out of my Knowledge.

Thank You.

Kalicharan Nayal 

JEE ADVANCE PHYSICS: HOW TO COMMAND

To get a command in Physics.

The base is HCV. You must have command in HC Verma. And if it looks tough while solving, to clear concept of that particular topic consult Interactive Physics volumes by mtg (that R ravi, kamraj etc.) simultaneously.

Once the IP & HCV is over have 25 yrs. papers of JEE and solve them all.

70–80% ques of JEE are under your will now.

And now its time for IRODOV & KROTOV.

After solving these all. You can solve all ques. Of JEE within minutes.

But if you want to read more…Resnick Halliday, Arihant separate topics books, are some good books. But what is above will make u that much to solve all questions of JEE ADVANCE.

Thank You.

Kalicharan Nayal